I have a problem.
I just treated myself to an ice cream machine. And now… I’ve unlocked a dangerous level of joy. I made a creamy coconut yogurt ice cream, then a coffee ice cream with a dash of Baileys and honestly? It was amazing. The kind of thing you want to eat straight from the bowl, no shame.
But also? A lot of sugar.
And since I’m still on this weight loss journey, trying to lose those last 4–5 kilos, this won’t do. So yes. Problem.
I’ve always had a sweet tooth. I love dessert. I’m the kind of person who always wants “just a little something” after dinner. And I don’t want to give that up entirely, but I do want to feel better in my body and avoid the sugar crash that comes with certain sweets.
And honestly, sugar just… hits differently now that I’m in my fifties.
Once I entered perimenopause, I started noticing how my body reacted in ways it didn’t before. Blood sugar spikes felt more intense – the tiredness, the mood swings, the brain fog. And the stubborn weight around my middle? Sugar wasn’t helping. I’ve read a lot about how our metabolism shifts during perimenopause, and how too much sugar can mess with our hormones, make hot flashes worse, and increase inflammation, and while I don’t follow every rule, I’m paying more attention now.
It’s not about being perfect. It’s about not feeling like crap all the time.
So here’s the middle ground I’ve decided to follow: I let myself enjoy the real thing once a week, a scoop of that dreamy homemade ice cream. And on the other days, I’ve been reaching for snacks that feel a little lighter, a little more nourishing, but still really satisfying.
Here are some of my favorite low-sugar treats lately. They’re not all perfectly “healthy,” but they’re better than eating an entire chocolate bar in one sitting. (And yes, I’ve done that.)
#1 Fresh Fruit (Always)
In the summer, I could live off melons. I’m obsessed with figs — especially in August here in Mallorca when they’re in season and perfect. I love bananas, fresh berries, whatever’s ripe. It’s the easiest, most natural sweet treat.
#2 Nut-Free Vanilla Energy Balls
These are a staple in my freezer, sweet, satisfying, and made with whole ingredients. Here’s my go-to recipe, inspired by Deliciously Ella:
Ingredients:
200g dates, without pits
50g sunflower seeds
50g oats
A few drops vanilla essence
2 teaspoons tahini
Pinch of salt
Optional: coconut flakes to roll them in
Method:
Throw everything (except coconut) into a food processor and blend until well mixed. If your dates are rather dry, it helps to pour some hot water over them first.
Roll the mixture into small balls, and press them into coconut flakes to coat. Freeze what you don’t eat in the first three days.
#3 Microwave Popcorn with Sugar + Cinnamon
It sounds weird, but it hits the spot. I make plain microwave popcorn, then sprinkle a tiny bit of sugar and cinnamon over it while it’s hot. Crunchy, sweet, and super satisfying.
#4 Coconut Yogurt with Cacao and Maple Syrup
Sometimes I stir together some coconut yogurt, a spoonful of cacao powder, and a drizzle of maple syrup. It’s a creamy, slightly tangy dessert — especially good topped with berries.
#5 My Homemade Granola (aka Disappearing Snack Mix)
I snack on this straight from the jar. It’s lightly sweetened, toasty, and disappears faster than I care to admit. I’ll share the recipe one day, promise.
#6 Frozen Grapes or Banana Slices
These are so simple and so good. Frozen green grapes are like little sorbet bites. Sliced banana freezes beautifully too, especially with a spoonful of peanut butter or almond butter on top.
#7 Chia Pudding with Cacao and Almond Butter
I make a basic chia pudding with almond milk, vanilla, and a touch of maple syrup, zhen top it with cacao nibs or a swirl of nut butter. Sometimes I blend it if I want a smooth texture.
#8 Semi-Dark Chocolate (60% and Up)
I’ll be honest, I still prefer milk chocolate to dark chocolate, even though I KNOW darkchocolate is so much better for you. But I enjoy good-quality chocolate with around 60% cacao. It’s just sweet enough, and I find I’m satisfied with less than I would be with regular milk chocolate. A small square with tea at night is lovely.
#9 Coconut “Truffles”
I blend shredded coconut, a few dates, vanilla, and a little coconut oil — then roll it into balls and chill. Sometimes I coat them in cacao powder or dip them in chocolate. They taste like little snowballs.
#10 Coconut Yogurt Ice Cream
And finally, the one that started this whole post. When I’m craving ice cream but don’t want the sugar crash, I blend coconut yogurt with a little maple syrup or honey and some blueberries, then freeze it in my new ice cream machine or in ice cream molds. So good.
I’m not here to cut out sugar completely. That’s not the goal. But I do want to feel better and eating less sugar definitely makes a difference, especially in midlife. These treats are helping me find that balance, and maybe they’ll inspire you too.
Let me know if you try any of these, or if you want more simple recipes like this on the blog. I’m not turning Midlife etc. into a recipe site, but I do love to cook, and this feels like a fun place to share.












